18. Finding Love

Whether you are already in a relationship, wondering whether you should stay in a relationship, or looking for love…this one’s for you.

How do you find love?

Here's the thing about love…we’re frequently looking for somebody else to create the feeling of love for us.

But if somebody else is responsible for how I feel, that’s a pretty helpless and powerless place to be. And I think that’s why love can be so painful so much of the time.  Because if we don’t receive love in the way we want to receive it, or if somebody does things that don’t align with what we would interpret as loving, then WE don’t get to feel any love. 

In this episode we explore the experience of love...what it feels like, what it creates us....and how we can  create more of it in our lives...on our terms.